The only place to be

The TRUE Alternative lifestyle venue for EVERYONE! 


 The Clubhouse has always taken great responsibility for being clean and for always putting the needs, wants, and desires of our patrons and community first.   Many are contacting us with concerns and I would like to use the words of one of our own to put all fears and worries at ease. ( This is a post on Facebook from one of our very own patrons and volunteer that was responding to a negative statement. )


The clubhouse and the

volunteers work extremely hard

to protect the patrons at all costs

from weekly/daily disinfecting to

having access to sanitation at all

times. Just like any other report

that is being put out right now,

the clubhouse always

encourages basic personal

hygiene. If you need further

security of this issue we do have

3 sinks you have access to wash

your hands at, a shower to wash,

hot towels that sit under a UV

light to help stop replication of

bacteria, disinfecting wipes

available in all areas as well as

hand sanitizer in all areas. As far

as personal relations go it is

encouraged that you negotiate

with those people before

engaging so that everyone within

your party is on the same level as

you (including bodily hygiene

and possible sexual activity). If it

is still an extreme pressing

matter you are more than

welcome to apply to volunteer

and help us first hand with

cleaning and disinfecting our

wonderful space. 

Please see that we all take great pride in our facility and we will remain open!!!!

While we are carefully watching the news and all other programs, we are not taking this outbreak lightly, we are simply giving people a place to go to feel human.  We are asking all of our patrons that they be responsible and clean.  We are not wanting to place anyone in harms way but we also feel that in all of this panic some need a place to feel calm and safe. 


About Us


Meet the staff

 First and foremost we would like to introduce ourselves.  Here you have your 3 main contacts of this wonderful Venue, Jaz, Joe, and Bryan.  Yes, we have many volunteers and many more wonderful patrons, but ultimately these 3 are The Clubhouse Staff.   Should there be any questions or concerns please let us know!! 

The Clubhouse is a 9600sq.ft. venue truly designed and hand crafted by the ONLY owner himself! Our venue is honestly built to cater to everyone.  Our venue is well established going on 5 years now.  We are a true business and venue for the people.  Many of us spend countless nights building and designing new equipment, or new spaces.  The staff and volunteers take great pride in our venue. The owner and staff will always be around at every meet and greet or event to help and answer any questions.  The Clubhouse was built with a passion to give everyone a space to be themselves, to be safe, to forget about life for at least 6hours, but most of all to let all of our Freak Flags Fly.  I promise you will never find this anywhere else and you will not want to leave!  We take everything into consideration at all times and are 100% devoted to the safety, security, and anonymity of all our patrons.  The Clubhouse was built to be a space where friends can come to enjoy each others company and just to be silly adults and let your hair down, so to speak. We are 2 levels, both with large open play areas. We have a dungeon with Monitors open at all events, 7 private rooms and a shower.  

 We pride ourselves on being honest to all communities and all aspects of any lifestyle.  We at no time will allow or accept anything less from our patrons.  If at anytime there is a question or even the slightest curiosity the staff is always available with an answer and we all have a wealth of knowledge.  Please stop by and see our wonderful home away from home and be welcomed with open arms, big hugs, warm greetings from everyone, and most of all laughs and a good time!!

Cant wait to see everyone and meet all new comers!

Recurring weekly/monthly Events

Meet and Greets/ SUSPENDED

Announce coming events/SUSPENDED

Announce coming events/SUSPENDED


 Meet and Greets are held on the 1st and 3rd Tuesday : 2nd and 4th Wednesday of every month.  

Announce coming events/SUSPENDED

Announce coming events/SUSPENDED

Announce coming events/SUSPENDED


 Here are our Karaoke Nights.  Come one out and show us your naughty or nice voice. A wonderful night of singing and playing . 


March 20th

March 27th//SUSPENDED

March 20th

 The Clubhouse is postponing this event to a later date.  

March 21st

March 27th//SUSPENDED

March 20th


 Come on out for a fun filled night of friends and enjoyment.   

March 27th//SUSPENDED

March 27th//SUSPENDED

March 27th//SUSPENDED


 Men's night.  This is a night for only the guys. Come on out an meet someone new people and have a wonderful time.  

March 28th//SUSPENDED

March 28th//SUSPENDED

March 27th//SUSPENDED

This is a Clubhouse only meet and mingle game nite.  We call crazy Puzzle night.  Thats right crazy puzzle night.  You will not want to miss this even. 

April 3rd// TBD

March 28th//SUSPENDED

April 3rd// TBD


All the ladies out there that need to get a break from husbands and or kids?  Come on out to the clubhouse


April 4th//TBD

March 28th//SUSPENDED

April 3rd// TBD


Come on out and just enjoy a night of friends, laughter, and survival.  Yep that is correct at this time you will have survived COVID-19.  Come and celebrate being health and full of new adventure. 

Pay Online and drop us a note

In trying to keep up with the changing times we are placing an option on our page for you to pay in advance for a standard Saturday Event ( prices can be found on the membership page)  Single Males must call still and get a password for the events and you will have to pay at the door for now. 

On a side note

 The Clubhouse is open to everyone!! We are working very hard to bring all the communities together once again.  To a point of respectability for each others "yum" so to speak.  As is said quite often in the Club, "dont Yuk on my Yum"  This simply means that not everyone's tastes are the same but we owe it to each other as adults and human-beings to let people be comfortable in their own skin and with themselves.  We are asking everyone to step up to the plate, open your minds to all the possibilities that we have to offer! 

If you really are only interested in Swing then fantastic we are the place for you but remember we do have a dungeon. If you are only interested in BDSM Fantastic we are the place for you as well, however please remember that we are a swingers club as well.  There is a fine line were all dimensions and all elements in this world can meet and be together peacefully. We are asking everyone to stand up and respect that we are all different yet the same.  

The Clubhouse is a judgement free place for everyone to be who they want be.  We offer a safe space for everyone to come to so that we all can let our Freak Flags Fly!

The Clubhouse on a National level

Thank you

Thank you to  They are a wonderful site full of information.  They have helped to  put THE CLUBHOUSE on a national list of Alternative lifestyle Venues to visit. Yes that is right The Clubhouse is now well know to all and the ONLY true Venue to visit in NM.  This team speaks with their own words and knowledge of meeting people and visiting our beautiful venue first hand, with no bias.  Please check out their review of The Clubhouse!   Again, this is a wonderful site so please use the link above. 

Contact Us

Drop us a line!

Better yet, come see us in person!


NM Clubhouse

505-750-3977(call or text) or 765-343-4386 (text) email is

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